Monday, November 13, 2006

Dedicated To The Good Girls (Found this piece of writting on the net is is a wee bit american)

This is my tribute to the nice girls. To the girls who become friends and nothing more, who spend hours fixating on their looks and their personalities and there actions becasue it must be that they are doing something wrong. This is for the girls who don't give up on the first date, who don't want to play mind games, who provide a comforting hug and a supportive audience for a story they've heard a thousand times. This is for the girl who understands they aren't perfect and the guys their intersted in aren't either, for the girls who flirt and laugh and worry and obsess over the slightest glance, whisper, touch because somehow they are able to keep alive that hope that maybe.... maybe this time he'll have understood. This is a homage to the girls who laugh loud and often, who are comfortable in skirts and sweats and combat boots, who care more than they should for guys who don't deserve there attention. This is for the girls who have been in the trenches, who have watched other girls time and again fake up and make up and tear up the guys in their lives without even saying a word. This is for the girls who have been there from the beginning and have heard the tride words of advice, from "there are pleanty more fish in the sea" to "time heals all wounds." This is to honour those girls who know that guys are just as scared as they are, who know that they deserve better, who are seeking to find it.

This is for the girls who have never been in love but know it's something they don't want to miss out on. For the girls who have sought a night with friend and have been greeted by a night of catcalling, rude comments and explicit invitations that they'd rather not have experienced.

This is for the girls who have left sad songs as their away messages, who have tried to make someone understand through a subliminally appealing profile, who have time and time again dropped their male friend hint after hint only to watch him chase after the first blonde girl in a skirt. This is for the girls who have been told that they're to good or too smart or too pretty, who have been given complments as a way of breaking off a relaitionship, who have ever been told they are only wanted as a friend.

This one's for the girls who you can take home to mom, but won't because it's easier to slep with a whore than foster a relationship. This is for the girls who have been lead on with words and kisses and touches, all of which were either only true for the moment or never true to begin with. This is for the girls who have allowed a guy into their head and heart and bed, only to descover his is not ready, he's just not over her, he's just not looking to be tied down.


Here is just the first section of this bit of writting if you are interested in looking at the rest it can be found on this website http://www.onetruth.com/ - go to written stuff and it is the first piece of writting.

2 Comments:

Blogger Rhix said...

I posted a comment where did it go?? Or perhaps i just pressed preview and not publish, neva mind i will rewrite it....

....I like this things sadly very true for lots of us girls, hmm we are sometimes very stupid when it comes to men!

9:41 pm  
Blogger Fi said...

you know the really sad thing is even if the guys who are spoken about in this read this i dont think they would get it... the pain they cause and how they are the people to can create healing... painfully true writing but also read with a lil smile and i see so much of me there too!
loves ya
x

11:56 am  

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